What do we need to Feel Loved?
We all people have internal codes which makes us require a specific way to feel loved or not loved. The first thing we need to understand is the language of love which our partner uses in order to communicate in the same language and then understand each other.
The way we express love to our partner is key to have a harmonic relationship. Psicologist have observed that our basic needs are safety, self-appreciation and meaning. Love is closely related with all of them and taking the decision to love someone else requires from our side the ability to love ourselves in the first place.
If you understand your own needs then you will automatically understand your partner needs and it will be much easier to show him or her love.
Each of us have developed our way to show love, the most common are:
Kissing, Hugs, take hands, but the real love comes when you are undergoing difficult times, being together and working through difficult situations together is one of the best ways to prove yourself and your partner that what you have together is real love. Offering your unconditional help, supporting your partner ideas and looking for solutions together are simply the most bonding situations ever.
Sometimes the most simple gesture can show our partner how much we love him or her. Normally we show our love with those small things that comes from our heart.
Money cannot buy real love, but you need to be rich in heart and passion to really have all the love you wish in life.
