Why is it so hard to show Love?
It is so hard to show our affection to those people we love that we sometimes loose valuable opportunities that we will not be able to recover ever. Tell someone or make them feel that we love them has become something of the past or we just leave it for a special date or birthday.
But, What would it happen if today would be the last time you would see that person? Would you give him/her a big hug? Would you say I love you? Would you let him/her know how important is him/her in your life? Then why wait until it is too late?
Why do we behave like that? In many cases these are behaviors learned at home or maybe our parents did not show us how important is to show our feelings to those people we love. Other people are just afraid of showing others their feelings because they live in constant fear of being hurt.
These kind of behaviors are like a negative spiral, the less love you show, the less love you will receive as here the Law of Give and Receive will ensure that so it is.
For that very same reason I have always recommended my friends who have been going through a bad relationship to not close their hearts to what is about to come. Doing that will ensure that you will never ever find that person that you are looking for. It is very important to understand that your past relationship experiences whether good or bad are not reflective of future experiences but ONLY if all your thoughts are focused on your past love relationship experiences.
I can tell you from a personal experience that what I have stated above is true.
” Before I ever met my actual wife I had other relationships which were extremely disastrous, not only on the physical but on the mental and heart plane, all I wanted at that moment was to get out of that situation and get rid of the people who were hurting me, If I would have used the CLOSE MY HEART AND HIDE IN YOUR ROOM technique, for sure, I would have missed that beautiful person that I met a couple of months later… my wife…”
So that is my advice, keep your heart and eyes open no matter what… that way you will be able to find out what you are looking for.
When we give Love to others is just like to put Gas on your Car, it makes it run well, you feel great, and you feel loved and appreciated. Take your time to always tell your mate that you love him/her and you will provide him/her well being and happiness.
Everytime we show love to our parents, brothers, family and friends, we give them a happiness coupon which is something that will get back to us ten fold.
Do it today, change someones life telling him or her how much you love her and do it altruistically without waiting the same in return. The Universe will take care that you get what you give….



on September 11th, 2007 at 2:12 am
To show love is not difficult, but it’s difficult for us to show love in the correct way. We may need to learn something in this aspect before our practice.
I’m lucky since I have read many useful messages on the blog section of millionairecupid.com. When it’s the right time to show love to my lover, I did it perfectly. She is quite happy.