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In terms of Goal Achievement how important is to have a partner?

Posted in Love / Friendship / Relationship by Gustav S on the July 16th, 2007

You and your love partner are just like that a partnership, an union that happened from love in order to progress in life and make both of your goals come true.

It is much easier to achieve your goals when you have such a great partner on your side, and for some interesting reason society as it is established in this world supports this in a great way. Back in the days when religion was the only “law” who controlled the masses, some wise people decided to teach us to marry ourselves and create a “holy” binding. If you look this from the economic point of view it can also show us that they knew that 2 people working together for the same goal will generate more riches and for the church that will also mean higher “donations”, because people will pay its gratitude to the church with some gold. Please just see the comment above just like a possible point of view and have in mind that religion was created by men and men have always been good at hiding their true purposes. Please do not mistake GOD and RELIGION… they are 2 separate things.

If you have ever been serious at reaching your goals you for sure know about having other people work with you to reach your goals in a faster and easier way. If you really have a great love relationship then him or her should be your very first pillar of support. Anyways why would you like to spend your life with someone to who you cannot even trust your goals and dreams? :)

My reasons to believe that is first and foremost that both have similar goals in life and this automatically bind you in a way that you will be able to work them out together.

For that I will just give you the first hint on why this works:

Have you ever worked out your house budget for 1 person or for 2 persons (your partner) ?

If not you should do it … you will notice the following:

It is not much more expensive to maintain another person under the same roof than just 1, in fact the cost increase is not more than a 10% or 20% of the budget for just one person. (Obviously it depends on where you live).

A Sample budget for 1 person might look like this:

1) You have to pay the rent
2) You have to pay for food for 1 person
3) You have to pay your insurances (if you have to)
4) You have to pay for your car (if you have one)

Now think about what you should ADD to that budget if now you live with your partner

1) you have to pay for food for 2 persons
2) Maybe pay for a little bit higher rent
3) Pay for the insurances
4) Pay for the second car

I know this budget idea is very raw but it varies greatly between person to person so it is just to make a point.

So if that is the case you should still be able to manage to maintain one extra person with just one salary or a little bit more than one salary.

I do not know if you see the picture here but the point is that if you and your partner are both in synchrony with your goals you can certainly work an excellent plan for the future.

Put for example that you are looking forward to save for a down payment for a house, you will be both working hard to have that goal achieved and you will for sure look to optimize your budget in order to save the most.

You and your partner should get jobs and minimize your budget as much as possible so you can save a full salary, seen in another way you are duplicating your ability to make money.

Obviously it is stupid to say that the only thing you need to do is to save but that is another big and deep topic that need to be discussed, What to do with the money you are saving…?


This is very basic but at the same time very important, this will not just make you achieve your goals faster but it will also make your love relationship stronger and greater… There is no better satisfaction than achieving a goal together as a couple and then being able to enjoy the efforts you made.

Teamwork is all… and considering your love partner as your first partner is a great idea. If you cannot really even trust your love partner for a business then you should really reconsider what you have as serious love relationship.

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  1. on July 28th, 2007 at 7:15 pm

    This is very true I think it is the emotions of love and sex that drives us on to accomplish more. These are two most powerful of the positive human emotions.

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